The books I keep coming back to, and the ones I think about long after I've finished them. There's a shelf of guided journals too, for the nights you'd rather write than read.
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MindPanda Reflect Journal
A guided journal with a daily prompt, plus a habit tracker and a mood tracker.
Four Thousand Weeks
Oliver Burkeman points out that the average life is about four thousand weeks long. His argument is that you'll never get everything done, and that accepting this frees you to spend your time on what matters most.
The Other Side of Change
Maya Shankar is a cognitive scientist and the host of the podcast A Slight Change of Plans. She trained as a violinist until a hand injury ended that career. For this book she interviewed people who went through big changes they didn't choose, and combined their stories with research on how people find meaning afterward.
The Balancing Act
Nedra Glover Tawwab is a therapist and the author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace. In this book she looks at the balance between depending on other people and protecting yourself. Giving too much can cost you your sense of self, and holding back too much can leave you isolated. She covers codependency, hyper independence and attachment styles, and each chapter ends with reflection prompts.
The Let Them Theory
Mel Robbins wrote this book with her daughter, Sawyer Robbins. When other people do things you can't control, let them, and put your energy into the things you can.
Why Am I Like This?
Sabrina Zohar writes about the patterns people repeat in relationships. She uses psychology and nervous system research to explain where those patterns come from and how to break them. It came out in October.
Radical Surrender
Anna Lembke is a psychiatrist at Stanford and the author of Dopamine Nation. Her new book is about control. She connects a lot of modern anxiety and loneliness to the need to control everything, and argues that letting go and accepting uncertainty can improve relationships and parenting.
The Life Designer Journal
A guided life planner and goal setting journal from Intelligent Change, the company that makes the Five Minute Journal.
The Psychology of Money
Morgan Housel writes short chapters about how people make decisions with money, and why those decisions often have more to do with feelings and experience than with math.
You, Your Husband and His Mother
Dalgleish looks at how expectations from a spouse's family can create tension inside a marriage, and how couples can work together when family obligations leave one partner feeling unheard. A good one to read while holiday plans are still taking shape.
You’re Not Listening
Kate Murphy is a journalist, and this book is her argument that most of us are much worse listeners than we think. It's good company for anyone who has ever nodded through a conversation while quietly rehearsing their reply.
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
Lindsay Gibson is a clinical psychologist, and this book is about growing up with parents who struggled to meet their children's emotional needs. What I appreciate is that she's far more interested in understanding than in blame.
Love’s Labor
Stephen Grosz is a psychoanalyst, and Love's Labor draws on stories from his practice to look at how people come to love each other and how they keep it going. After a run of frameworks and exercises, this one just sits with the question of how love lasts.
The Whisper
Sara Jackson is a social worker and the founder of The Practice in Toronto. Her book opens on a feeling plenty of people will recognize. Everything looks fine from the outside, and still a small voice keeps asking whether this is really it.
Everyday Intuition
Elizabeth Greenwood set out to find what intuition actually is, and went looking in neuroscience, in psychology and, yes, with psychics. The book takes on the question most of us never ask out loud, which is how to tell a gut feeling apart from anxiety or plain wishful thinking. It's a little witchy, which feels right for October, when every Etsy witch is having the best month of her year.
The Five Minute Journal
Five minutes in the morning, five at night. Three things you're grateful for, three things that would make today great, and then a look back before bed at what went well and what could have gone better. It's the one a lot of people start with, maybe because it asks so little of you.
The Mountain Is You
Brianna Wiest's book is about the ways we get in our own way. Her central idea is that sabotaging ourselves usually isn't random. It's often meeting a need, sometimes a very old one, that we haven't found a better way to meet yet.
The New Attachment Theory
Thais Gibson's newest book on Integrated Attachment Theory moves past naming your attachment style and into the beliefs and needs underneath it, with a secure way of relating as the goal. It's the book I'd hand anyone who wants to understand the method from the source.
A Map to Your Soul
Jennifer Freed brings a background in psychology to astrology, using the four elements to explore personality and everyday patterns. I like a book that treats a birth chart as a way into knowing yourself, and then trusting what you find.
Neoteric Feminine Tarot
This is one of the decks that led me to start Well Wed. I'll forever be grateful for the leap of faith it reminded me it was time to take. The 78 cards are hand illustrated with only female figures, and the keyword edition prints each meaning right on the card, so it's a gentle way in if you're new to tarot.